Thursday, April 30, 2009
Long before his vehicle overturned on Speegleville Road and his life ended 10 years ago, Chris Pledger figured out one way a person can continue to live on, or at least serve humankind beyond the grave.
Fortunately, he shared it with someone: his intent to share his organs.
Without having said it in advance of an untimely end, who knows? His story might not have had six happy endings.
What we know now: His heart, his liver, his pancreas, his lungs, his kidneys, all went into bodies desperately needing them. Six lives saved.
Actually, even more benefitted, because Chris’ skin went to transplant purposes, too.
From such a staggering loss — a young man cut down at 18 — that’s an amazing swath of newfound hope.
But it might not have happened except for the conversation — make that two.
One of those conversations came back to Pam Pledger, his mom, when Chris’ girlfriend brought it up. “In my grief, I hadn’t remembered it.”
As a Reicher Catholic high-schooler needing his parents’ permission to designate himself as an organ donor when applying for a driver’s license, he told them, “This is important to me.”
In case of sudden death, he said, he didn’t want useful organs committed to the sod.
The second conversation was with his girlfriend a couple of years later, saying something similar when he got his license renewed.
In the dizzying moments after his death, she brought that to the Pledgers’ attention.
Like any of us would, Pam Pledger admitted reticence to the idea of someone harvesting her son’s organs. But having been reminded of what he said, the vehemence of her son’s wishes came surging through.
We need more of that vehemence, and more conversations.
As of Monday morning, 101,765 Americans were awaiting life-saving transplants. Last year 6,500 on the national list died waiting.
The Texas Organ Sharing Alliance is engaged in a nonstop drive to sign up donors. The key reason: Of the 2.3 million Americans who die every year, only 3 percent die in the sudden-death situations ideal for harvesting organs.
That doesn’t mean, for instance, that older Americans whose organs have some miles on them shouldn’t designate themselves. Even people whose organs aren’t harvestable can donate tissues for transplant.
You may assume that you have designated your organs for donation by answering affirmatively in getting your driver’s license. I did. But I realized, when speaking with representatives of the Texas Organ Sharing Alliance, that nothing in my possession reflected that decision.
Something can take care of the matter promptly and for perpetuity.
Go to donatelifetexas.org and register. (Punching in my information, I was relieved to be informed that I was already registered.)
Now, that’s not all. Step 2 is: Tell someone. Tell a spouse and your children.
Then, live.
If the unspeakable happens, much good can come from your untimely demise.
The Pledgers were able to meet three of the people whose lives were prolonged because of Chris’ charity. She admits to having a special bond with them. “Chris gave them the gift of life,” she said, “and they have given me the gift of family.”
Organ donation, as with blood donation, is one of those examples in which, though many things separate us, we are all kin.
John Young’s column appears Thursday and Sunday. E-mail: jyoung@wacotrib.com.







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By YoungWatch
May 2, 2009 3:02 AM | Link to this
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By David J Undis
Apr 30, 2009 12:56 PM | Link to this
If more people were as generous as Chris Pledger, we wouldnýt have over 6,000 Americans dying every year waiting for organ transplants. Most of these deaths are needless. Americans bury or cremate 20,000 transplantable organs every year.
There is a simple way to put a big dent in the organ shortage ý give donated organs first to people who have agreed to donate their own organs when they die.
Giving organs first to organ donors will convince more people to register as organ donors. It will also make the organ allocation system fairer. People who arenýt willing to share the gift of life should go to the back of the waiting list as long as there is a shortage of organs.
Anyone who wants to donate their organs to others who have agreed to donate theirs can join LifeSharers. LifeSharers is a non-profit network of organ donors who agree to offer their organs first to other organ donors when they die. Membership is free at www.lifesharers.org or by calling 1-888-ORGAN88. There is no age limit, parents can enroll their minor children, and no one is excluded due to any pre-existing medical condition. LifeSharers has over 12,000 members, including 980 members in Texas.
Please contact me - Dave Undis, Executive Director of LifeSharers - if your readers would like to learn more about our innovative approach to increasing the number of organ donors. I can arrange interviews with some of our local members if youýre interested. My email address is daveundis@lifesharers.org. My phone number is 615-351-8622.
By BDDH
Apr 30, 2009 12:18 PM | Link to this
A very good reminder, Mr. Young. I, too, have designated my organs to be donated. I put the families who allow their unused, scheduled-to-be-destroyed embryos to be used for stem cell research in the same category as this brave lady who carried out her son's wishes. We all need to spend more time actively thinking about others' needs as this young man did before he died.
By Mark Hall
Apr 30, 2009 8:22 AM | Link to this
Mr.Young this a very good column. I have been a doner for 9 years but I am going make sure with the web site you offered.
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