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Analyze, Wow this is a long one….TGIF!

By Kristen Preston | Friday, April 3, 2009, 06:35 AM

Lets analyze this hmmmmm……

Lets face it, it is 2009 and people are more shallow than ever. Every one has self esteem issues even if they are the most beautiful person in the room. Trust me I am 22, I have to deal with self esteem issues daily. I think for the most part I am happy with who I am inside, but outside I always could have improvement. So I think…

Anyone seen “Tough Love” on VH1? It is a show on a matchmaker teaching women how to change their thought process. It made me think a little. Even if a woman has a so called “Perfect Body” she doesn’t think so.

We struggle daily with the world’s judgment. We can say we do not care what everyone thinks. That is just a lie though. We all care to some degree. If we didn’t then we would not shop for the cutest, hippest thing out. We wouldn’t try the fast diets. (By the way those are not good for you.)

Moms, deal with so many pressures from the world that we forget about ourselves sometimes. We need to be mentally, physically, and spiritually well to survive this jungle.

Self Esteem is something we must have to instill in our children. We want them to succeed in life! We need to teach our children not to mess with other’s self esteem.

We need the drive of self esteem to conquer the world daily. If you are a single parent you must acquire this because the world will throw steak knifes at you daily. It seems since I have been a mother I struggle a lot with feeling good about myself. I am not letting people do that to me anymore. I have nothing to be ashamed of. Yes, I had sex before marriage (you probably did too!), I got pregnant, I had the baby, I am not asking for your tax money to raise him so shut up! Lol….. That sorta felt great.

I have my opinions and others have theirs and that is what makes the crazy world go around. If I am doing something you do not like and it does not directly effect you, then back off! If we all just kept our nose’s in our nose’s business we would eliminate Drama. Of course there would be no trash TV. Survivor, Big Brother, ect. Which I love both of these shows! I guess with out drama we would be a gray planet though.

Ok woman talk if you are a guy I would click away now………….

Has anyone heard of endometriosis? Anyone have it? It is a women’s disease and it is genetic. About a month ago I got diagnosed with this. I have heard all sorts of different stories regarding this disease. Personally, I find it very painful. It is pretty much scar tissue lining the uterus wall. I had an aunt that had to get a hysterectomy because of it. YIKES. I will know what they are going to do with me hopefully in another month or so. So I will keep you posted.

On another note…. Anyone else glad it is Friday? Is it Friday or am I just dreaming? Some one friggin pinch me! YAY!

So what is everyone’s exciting plans for today or this weekend?

I am going to work today! Yay Praise the Lord I still have a job.

Saturday my boyfriend and I are taking Landon to Sea World. Hip Hip! We will have a huge group with us, but it will be super exciting.

Remember all have a great attitude, the world can not knock you down if you do not let them. I see it daily, people stressing over nothing. Lets just have a Friday of no care to how we are judge. To all of the wonderful people! Cheers! Have a Blessed Day!

FOLLOW UP: The grounding really has worked on the Wii. I am getting him a rewards chart this weekend. I will tell you all how it goes.

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