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Monday, December 22, 2008
PS I Love You
Chick Flicks……makes you really think…..
I watched “PS I Love You” this weekend. The movie is about a man passing away and leaving his wife messages to encourage her to move on with life.
I was talking to one of my divorced friend’s about her split up with her ex not to long ago. We were talking about the emotional rollercoaster you go through. You think you love someone so much and know their heart so well. It is a slap to the face and a dagger to the heart when you break up.
It is kind of like they died . You go through a mourning process. The pain and emptiness is so intense, like a part of you dies.
The good news, there is life, love, and laughter again. I’d say about a year after is about normal to be healed. At least for me, everyone is different. Some are stronger the others.
I will say this going to church and having Christian friends have made me strong and help immensely. I have found my faith in people again. I still have a wall, but I believe this is a good thing.
The point is I have a lot of people in my life struggling right now as far as loss and loneliness. I know what that feels like. There is and end to the hurt though. I can promise anyone that. I have met many people in similar situations as mine, even worse ones. Everyone has their story. I think if people just had the faith restored everything would be a lot better for them.
So have faith, love with all of your heart, and never look back. What happens will only make you stronger. What does not happen will only make you wiser. Everyday the sun is shining through your curtains be thankful. God has blessed you with another day.
Have a Blessed day everyone!
Eric Clapton
